The Safe House Library
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For Difficult Conversations
The "Pause, Don't Punish" Script: A 3-Step Guide to Responding, Not Reacting
This is a simple but powerful system for handling those moments when your child (or partner) triggers an old wound. It's a script designed to help you break the cycle of reactive anger and instead create a space for connection and understanding. Use it to turn a potential conflict into a moment of trust.
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